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Absolutely Enough


In the search for ways to express our feelings we are going to more and more extremes.

Words like devastating and awesome and unique are being tagged with very devastating

and extremely unique and totally awesome! Hello! I thought devastating was defined as

“to make desolate, to ravage or destroy”. Why do we need extra words such as “terribly

devastating”? Is your devastation worse than my devastation? And unique is not nearly

good enough these days, oh no, we have “very, very unique” or “extremely unique”.

Unique meaning “unlike any other or without equal” doesn’t come close!

How long is it going to take before we impose a ban on “absolutely”? This four syllable

word made its appearance approximately eight years ago and rapidly became the most

over used and badly used word in history. It is now toxic as it is the first word resorted to in

response to the simplest of questions. “Yes” is a very nice appropriate word but it has

disappeared behind the log jam of “absolutely”! It is time to ban it and convert to

“definitely” or “yes” or “certainly”?

So we now have millions of half-wits muttering “absolutely” every hour, every day. In an

ABC TV interview just two days ago, one of the talking heads was asked six questions

and in every case the respondent, without pausing, used “absolutely” as the first word in

her answer to all six questions. I’m being a little unfair as she added “Oh absolutely” once.

And she wasn’t even aware that she did it.

So now we have well paid professional

personnel and media stars locked-in to

“absolutely”. It has become time to

declare war on this abomination as it is

giving me (absolute) nightmares. It has

become the most over-used word of the

decade! It has replaced “journey” as the

most used word when you can’t find a

more interesting or apt word. Everything

is not a journey but that is how it has become during the last fifteen years. Over-used and

badly used. A golfer hits the ball and the announcer says “it won’t make the journey!” or a

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of words have become restricted and the internet and social media have caused the lack

of imaginative words and instead we are all over-using the same dull words incessantly

without even realising how boring and repetitive and inescapable it has become. As an

example, just try to survive a few hours or even a day without hearing “bunch”! For years

we had a bunch of flowers or a bunch of bananas and even bike riders might be all

bunched together. But now we have a huge bunch of idiots who use bunch for everything!!

Americans have showed their complete lack of imagination by using bunch for every

collective noun in use! They say “a bunch of cars”, “a bunch of buildings”, “a bunch of

drinks”, “a bunch of records”. Just yesterday, I heard a guy on the radio saying “and there

was this bunch of water”. That’s what he said although it is hard to believe. Collective

nouns are funny, clever, accurate and wonderful but it is all too hard for us to use them,

isn’t it? Much easier to say “a bunch of idiots”. Could we try “a herd of idiots?” or maybe “a

team of idiots?” It’s tempting to say “a bunch of baboons” but a “flange of baboons” is so

much better. How about “a chatter of budgerigars” or “a gaggle of race cars”. “A float of

crocodiles” or “a murder of crows” So let’s ban the “bunch” and use “a parade of

elephants” or “an ambush of tigers” (I really, really love that one!!). How about a cast of

crabs or a band of coyotes, or an army of ants, a troop of kangaroos or a charm of

hummingbirds. Is it asking too much to drop “bunch” and use these colourful nouns

instead? Recently I heard someone asking what is the collective noun for celebrity chefs.

Nobody was certain but an “irritation of chefs” was promoted and is so apt and funny we

hope it catches on.

footballer kicks the ball and we hear “it failed to make the journey!” So now a trip

to the corner store for milk is a journey? Doesn’t a journey mean travelling from

one place to another, a trip or voyage? Yeah, Right! So let us take these

“absolutely” and “journey” words and stick them on a rocket and send them into

outer-space never to be seen or heard from again.

There can be little doubt that people arereading less these days so their selection


Now we have to warn you that having failed to cull the use of bunch, absolutely and

journey there is, horrors of horrors, a new word fermenting in the background and its use is

growing daily. When I heard a rugby league player, who had no personality, trying to

articulate why he didn’t play well and he stumbled along searching for words but then he

used “replicate” and I knew all too well that it is becoming a buzz word. It has been

cropping up occasionally for weeks now so soon everything will be replicated. You have

been warned! Very, very soon you will be “replicating” endlessly and meaninglessly. My

only hope is it that it doesn’t survive more than one year but it probably will grow like a

cancer and be in use for years.


John Wilson, August 2018

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